
I end with a picture for the future: Barney’s two crazy kids who always smile to the world. Vicky is now speaking in four different languages. She calls me “Nonatan”.
The funeral of Willanton took place outside the house where he used to live, also the house Barney grew up in. There were many kids singing and it was a very emotional event. The coffin was carried to the nearby cemetery and he was buried beside his grandmother. As the children sang and the men filled the grave of the young boy his grandfather, Barney’s father, could not bear it and ran crying towards the grave. Barney who is very professional but also a very emotional person held a speech not showing the tears behind his eyes. Back at the house we hugged and he cried briefly before pulling himself together again. After giving everyone at the funeral food he had to rush to Grootfontain to prepare the funeral of his wife’s aunt who past away the same day as Willanton. Death knows no timing.
Today Barney’s brother’s son got hit by a car passing trough Oshivelo and died. He was 10 years old. Hofni who I am now staying with (Barney is with his family in Grootfontain) had lived together with the boy for seven years, they were like brothers and Barney was their father. The boy sometimes came to our house to visit us. The kids were crying in school today. Too many people die too early in this country!
I was promised a (live) goat (300$) delivered in the morning on Saturday but because “yes, don’t worry I will take care of it”, “yes, yes, of course” and “trust me”, even if it’s told to your face by your friend, doesn’t mean that it will happen, the goat was not delivered. Everything went well in the end and the participants got their meat and Ameb (the genitor at the school) and his brother came and cooked for us.
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